Everyone has their own "guilty pleasures", those things that we know we shouldn't like but we do. Sometimes they are our own little secrets (my M&M + peanut butter love, NOT to be confused with Peanut Butter M&Ms, yuck), sometimes we laugh about them publicly. They are our little way of escaping the real world in some way.
My guilty pleasures lie in 2- 1 hour TV shows: "Toddlers and Tiaras" and "Teen Mom 2". I am not the "target audience" for either of these shows, I am not a mom (yet), I have never done pagents and I am not a teen. So why am I addicted?
These shows are like train wrecks, I can't look away! The great thing about these shows is that they are on networks that replay them CONSTANTLY! I swear they run them at least once a day. I can get my fix, even if I'm not able to watch them on the day they actually air for the first time.
Of course, I like other shows as well, other shows that are more socially appropriate to talk about. I'm not saying those other shows are mentally stimulating (Bachelor, anyone?), but they are more readily discussed among normal people.
If you have a guilty pleasure show, feel free to talk to me about it. I don't judge...much...
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Monday, January 16, 2012
Please, Be Careful
This is something that has bothered me for awhile...I've tried giving it over to God, but because of my constant need to keep control, I haven't been successful. So this is my attempt to get it out and let it go.
Often when I am with a group of women, most of them are married with children of various ages. When the topic comes to the weekend or free time, I've heard the following more times than I can count, "Oh, that sounds nice, it's because you aren't married and don't have kids." My smart-ass self wants to respond, "Thanks for pointing out the obvious and throwing it back in my face." My usual response is to sweetly let them know my schedule and gladly offer to trade with them. This worked a lot more when I was coaching, teaching and going to school. Now that I am finished with school and I am no longer coaching, I will admit, I have much more free time.
My reasons for not liking this statement are two-fold...
1. It makes you SEEM incredibly ungrateful for the blessings you have, in my eyes. I know many parents who have had to bury their children due to losing a battle with cancer. I'm sure they would gladly get back those weekends where you have birthday parties, athletic practices/games, shopping trips, making meals, having sleepovers and all the other activities parents do for their children on a daily basis. And honestly, would you really trade your weekend with your family for my weekend of doing nothing? I don't think so.
2. My second reason is you don't know how that person feels about the fact that they aren't married and/or don't have children. You may be talking to a person who wants nothing more to be a wife an mother and it just has not happened for them yet. You may be talking to someone who feels like a failure because she wasn't married by age 26 like the majority of her friends, who feels like she isn't good enough for her dream to come true. You may be talking to someone who is married, but is having trouble conceiving and is going through a very personal struggle, someone who would give up everything she had to naturally have a child with her husband.
I know this comment is not made with malice or meant to hurt, but people often keep their struggles quiet, especially when you aren't close to others or you feel like others don't understand. You don't know what people would give up to have those busy weekends filled to the brim with children. I'm sure after a weekend where you didn't get as much rest as you needed, it sounds great to sleep in and not really do anything. I'm sure you have weekends where you want to pull your hair out because your children are driving you crazy, I'm not naive enough to think that having kids is all sunshine and roses. I'm sure you need a break from being a mom and you should have one when you need it. All I am asking is that you think before you make statements to people.
Often when I am with a group of women, most of them are married with children of various ages. When the topic comes to the weekend or free time, I've heard the following more times than I can count, "Oh, that sounds nice, it's because you aren't married and don't have kids." My smart-ass self wants to respond, "Thanks for pointing out the obvious and throwing it back in my face." My usual response is to sweetly let them know my schedule and gladly offer to trade with them. This worked a lot more when I was coaching, teaching and going to school. Now that I am finished with school and I am no longer coaching, I will admit, I have much more free time.
My reasons for not liking this statement are two-fold...
1. It makes you SEEM incredibly ungrateful for the blessings you have, in my eyes. I know many parents who have had to bury their children due to losing a battle with cancer. I'm sure they would gladly get back those weekends where you have birthday parties, athletic practices/games, shopping trips, making meals, having sleepovers and all the other activities parents do for their children on a daily basis. And honestly, would you really trade your weekend with your family for my weekend of doing nothing? I don't think so.
2. My second reason is you don't know how that person feels about the fact that they aren't married and/or don't have children. You may be talking to a person who wants nothing more to be a wife an mother and it just has not happened for them yet. You may be talking to someone who feels like a failure because she wasn't married by age 26 like the majority of her friends, who feels like she isn't good enough for her dream to come true. You may be talking to someone who is married, but is having trouble conceiving and is going through a very personal struggle, someone who would give up everything she had to naturally have a child with her husband.
I know this comment is not made with malice or meant to hurt, but people often keep their struggles quiet, especially when you aren't close to others or you feel like others don't understand. You don't know what people would give up to have those busy weekends filled to the brim with children. I'm sure after a weekend where you didn't get as much rest as you needed, it sounds great to sleep in and not really do anything. I'm sure you have weekends where you want to pull your hair out because your children are driving you crazy, I'm not naive enough to think that having kids is all sunshine and roses. I'm sure you need a break from being a mom and you should have one when you need it. All I am asking is that you think before you make statements to people.
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Bunco Girls Night
About a year ago, we started a tradition of Bunco/Girls Night. A group of girlfriends all meet up, usually at my house or Amanda's house, and have a few drinks, a few snacks and play some wild rounds of Bunco!
Sometimes we get corny and do themes like our "Wig Out" night, inspired by who-else, the Real Housewives of Something or Other.
Last night, our theme was "Guilt-Free Girls Night". Since it is still relatively early in January and everyone is still on diets and working out, we all brought healthy stuff! I made a veggie tray, Kasey and Jennifer brough fruit (pineapple!), Lauren brought dark chocolate almonds, Ashley brought brownies made with diet coke (awesome!) and Amanda brought hummus and pita chips! We had Skinny Girl drinks, wine, Texas vodka and marshmallow vodka.
People started arriving around 7 and for about an hour we stood around in the kitchen munching on our healthy snacks. We had 8 girls in all, perfect for 2 Bunco tables! It got pretty crazy...yelling, screaming, dice rolling! If my neighbors were home, they probably didn't like me last night!
Normally, when you play Bunco, 3 people win, the person with the most Buncos, the most wins and the most losses. Most losses gets their money back ($5), the rest is split between most Buncos and most wins. Last night we had to have two roll-offs for money! Amanda and Ashley had to have a roll off for most Buncos, and Lauren and I had to have a roll off for most losses...it got pretty intense! Ashley and Amanda were going for a Bunco and wanted to win, since the Loser Laurens were rolling for most losses, we were rolling to lose! Of course, I won when I needed to lose!
After our crazy-dice rolling antics, we headed back to the kitchen and ate more! People started heading home around 11, but Lauren and Greer stayed and we gabbed until morning!
A great night was had by all and I can't wait for the next one!
PS- Ok, Lauren, I blogged, you can post pics now ;)
Sometimes we get corny and do themes like our "Wig Out" night, inspired by who-else, the Real Housewives of Something or Other.
Last night, our theme was "Guilt-Free Girls Night". Since it is still relatively early in January and everyone is still on diets and working out, we all brought healthy stuff! I made a veggie tray, Kasey and Jennifer brough fruit (pineapple!), Lauren brought dark chocolate almonds, Ashley brought brownies made with diet coke (awesome!) and Amanda brought hummus and pita chips! We had Skinny Girl drinks, wine, Texas vodka and marshmallow vodka.
People started arriving around 7 and for about an hour we stood around in the kitchen munching on our healthy snacks. We had 8 girls in all, perfect for 2 Bunco tables! It got pretty crazy...yelling, screaming, dice rolling! If my neighbors were home, they probably didn't like me last night!
Normally, when you play Bunco, 3 people win, the person with the most Buncos, the most wins and the most losses. Most losses gets their money back ($5), the rest is split between most Buncos and most wins. Last night we had to have two roll-offs for money! Amanda and Ashley had to have a roll off for most Buncos, and Lauren and I had to have a roll off for most losses...it got pretty intense! Ashley and Amanda were going for a Bunco and wanted to win, since the Loser Laurens were rolling for most losses, we were rolling to lose! Of course, I won when I needed to lose!
After our crazy-dice rolling antics, we headed back to the kitchen and ate more! People started heading home around 11, but Lauren and Greer stayed and we gabbed until morning!
A great night was had by all and I can't wait for the next one!
PS- Ok, Lauren, I blogged, you can post pics now ;)
Thursday, January 12, 2012
January New Recipes
Part of my new year's resolution was to try 3 new recipes a month. I've been doing good latey trying new things, but I wanted some new "go-to" recipes so I am consciously trying new stuff and stepping out of my box. I didn't get any pictures of these because I didn't think about it because I was too busy cooking, but they were good!
Here are January's recipes:
Italian Turkey burgers
1 lb ground turkey
1/2 cup italian bread crumbs
1/4 cup dried sundries tomatoes, diced
1 egg
1/2 tsp Italian seasoning, dash salt, dash pepper
1. Mix all ingredients in a bowl, then shape into 4-6 burger patties (cook faster if smaller).
2. Heat 1/4 tbs of extra virgin olive oil in lg skillet. (you could grill these as well)
3. Cook flipping after side darkens and darken otherside. Be sure to check middle befor removing from oil.
4. Mix a little Italian dressing with mayo, and serve on buns, toppings of your choice. we usually have sweet potato fries as our side of choice.
I "stole" this from my college roommate, Alisha. Like me she loves to cook and we always had fun cooking together. Another friend of ours put together a group on Facebook for us to share recipes and Alisha posted this one. I made the sweet potato fries with it as she suggested and it was a great combination! It was quick and easy and I will be making this one again.
Maple Salmon
1/4 cup maple syrup
2 tablespoons soy sauce
1 clove garlic, minced
1/4 teaspoon garlic salt
1/8 teaspoon ground black pepper
Salmon filets
Preheat oven to 400
Here are January's recipes:
Italian Turkey burgers
1 lb ground turkey
1/2 cup italian bread crumbs
1/4 cup dried sundries tomatoes, diced
1 egg
1/2 tsp Italian seasoning, dash salt, dash pepper
1. Mix all ingredients in a bowl, then shape into 4-6 burger patties (cook faster if smaller).
2. Heat 1/4 tbs of extra virgin olive oil in lg skillet. (you could grill these as well)
3. Cook flipping after side darkens and darken otherside. Be sure to check middle befor removing from oil.
4. Mix a little Italian dressing with mayo, and serve on buns, toppings of your choice. we usually have sweet potato fries as our side of choice.
I "stole" this from my college roommate, Alisha. Like me she loves to cook and we always had fun cooking together. Another friend of ours put together a group on Facebook for us to share recipes and Alisha posted this one. I made the sweet potato fries with it as she suggested and it was a great combination! It was quick and easy and I will be making this one again.
Maple Salmon
1. In a small bowl, whisk together syrup, soy sauce, garlic, garlic salt and pepper (I just used syrup, soy sauce, garlic powder, a pinch of salt and and a dash of pepper).
2. Pour mixture into a shallow baking dish.
3. Place salmon in dish (if the skin is still on, make sure skin is facing up). Cover and put in fridge for at least 30 minutes.
4. After marinating, uncover dish and bake at 400 for about 20 minutes or until fish is cooked fully.
Warning...this will make your house smell like pancakes!
Spaghetti with tomatoes, black olives, garlic and feta cheese
1 1/2 lbs of tomatoes (about 3 big ones) seeded and cut into 1/2 in squares
1/2 cup black olives, pitted
1/4 lb feta cheese
3 tbsps capers (drained)
3 tbsps parsley
1/4 tsp salt
1/4 tsp pepper
3/4 lb spaghetti
6 tbsps olive oil
3 cloves garlic, minced
1. Combine tomatoes, olives, feta, capers, parsley, salt and pepper in a large glass or stainless steel bowl
2. Cook and drain spaghetti
3. In a large frying pan, heat olive oil on medium heat. Add garlic and cook for about a minute.
4. Remove frying pan from heat, add spaghetti and tomato mixture and toss until combined.
Note: I'm not sure why the material of the bowl matters in step 1, but I used a stainless steel bowl to not upset the recipe gods.
I've been finding my recipes on Pinterest and from friends who have posted things to facebook.
All of these took 30 minutes or less to prepare! I highly recommend all three of these recipes and now I can cross January recipes off my new years resolution list!
Warning...this will make your house smell like pancakes!
Spaghetti with tomatoes, black olives, garlic and feta cheese
1 1/2 lbs of tomatoes (about 3 big ones) seeded and cut into 1/2 in squares
1/2 cup black olives, pitted
1/4 lb feta cheese
3 tbsps capers (drained)
3 tbsps parsley
1/4 tsp salt
1/4 tsp pepper
3/4 lb spaghetti
6 tbsps olive oil
3 cloves garlic, minced
1. Combine tomatoes, olives, feta, capers, parsley, salt and pepper in a large glass or stainless steel bowl
2. Cook and drain spaghetti
3. In a large frying pan, heat olive oil on medium heat. Add garlic and cook for about a minute.
4. Remove frying pan from heat, add spaghetti and tomato mixture and toss until combined.
Note: I'm not sure why the material of the bowl matters in step 1, but I used a stainless steel bowl to not upset the recipe gods.
I've been finding my recipes on Pinterest and from friends who have posted things to facebook.
All of these took 30 minutes or less to prepare! I highly recommend all three of these recipes and now I can cross January recipes off my new years resolution list!
Friday, January 6, 2012
A Trip to the Winery
During the NYE day, Will and I ventured off on our own to find some wineries. I had never been to tastings at vineyards before, so I was excited about trying new places. It was a near perfect day out, so we were both excited to venture away from in great indoors.
When we typed in "Winery" to the search function on our phones' GPSs, tons of pins popped up within a 30 mile radius. We looked at the names of the wineries and Spicewood called out to me, so we set off to find the place, about 15 miles away.
We had to travel for a little over a mile on a narrow road that had several "cattle bridges". Since it's not the growing season, none of the vines had grapes or greenery on them...I must say, I was a little disappointed that the vision in my head didn't match the vision outside of my windshield.
They had a cute little pond/creek outside where we stopped to take some pictures. In the creek, there were some bright orange fish swimming around in little schools. 
When we typed in "Winery" to the search function on our phones' GPSs, tons of pins popped up within a 30 mile radius. We looked at the names of the wineries and Spicewood called out to me, so we set off to find the place, about 15 miles away.
We had to travel for a little over a mile on a narrow road that had several "cattle bridges". Since it's not the growing season, none of the vines had grapes or greenery on them...I must say, I was a little disappointed that the vision in my head didn't match the vision outside of my windshield.
We sat down and for $5 each, tried 8 different wines. It was nice to try different wines and hear what went into the making of them. I like reading what ingredients go into the wines and I'm always surprised when I see things like vanilla in red wine! The staff was friendly and very helpful and the winery was beautiful! We ended up purchasing a bottle of Merlot. I was a little too excited about buying my first bottle of wine straight from the vineyard!
After our tasting and buying, we hopped back in the car to another winery. I must say, I am so glad we chose to go to Stone House. It couldn't have been more perfect! We got to sit outside for our tastings, we had 9 "glasses" of great wine and we got to meet the sweet owner of the vineyard! She is originally from Australia and still has family vineyards there. Her name is Angela and my favorite wine from Stone House was a special Cab/Shiraz blend called "Angela's Wish". I loved buying a bottle of "Angela's Wish" from Angela herself! I almost don't want to open it, but it was soo good!
Hi Angela!
We ended up buying a second wine from Stone House, a Mourvedre that was to die for!
Happy Wining!
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
NYE weekend
This year, we decided to head out of town for NYE! Our great friends, Ann and Mike (Ann is the friend that introduced me to Will), have a family house in Horseshoe Bay, near Marble Falls. They decided to head down there for a low key NYE and invite our other friends Lea and Brian. We ended up with 6 adults, 3 kids and 3 dogs...and we thought it would be low key!
We arrived on Friday afternoon and just piddled around the house for awhile. Ann and I set off to Wal-Mart to get food for the weekend and then to the meat market for steaks for NYE (thank goodness for GPS on the phones!). Friday night we had great fajitas, and of course, lots of wine and beer! We spent the rest of Friday night watching the OU Sooners defeat the Iowa Hawkeyes (sorry Aunt Judy and Uncle Scott!)
Saturday morning, we woke up with the intentions of going to Bluebonnet Cafe, a favorite of everyone in the house. Being my first time in Marble Falls, I was excited to try this place because Ann and Lea raved so much about it, Lea swears their peanut butter pie is amazing! Ann and Mike left earlier with the kids so they could get a table, but later called us to say they were closed! All 6 adults were disappointed! We did find a breakfast place that met everyone's needs.
On the way to breakfast, Ann and Lea spotted an "open house" so we decided to stop in and be nosy! The house was REDUCED to just under $2 million, NBD. I will admit, it was a beautiful house, right on the water with LOTS of space and more importantly, lots of bathrooms! Two of the bathrooms even had bidets!
After touring, we headed back to the house to watch A&M beat Northwestern in another close game! While Will was absorbed in the game, the two babies, and 4 of the adults took naps...I might have been one of the adults...
Will and I did visit a couple of local wineries on Saturday...that's another post!
After the winery tour, Will and I rushed back to the house to make kickoff of the AUBURN game! We ate a wonderful steak and baked potato dinner (thanks, Mike and Ann) while watching Auburn beat UVA! We were 3 for 3 that weekend...everyone was happy! We all stayed up and watched the countdown and welcomed in 2012 with great friends!
We arrived on Friday afternoon and just piddled around the house for awhile. Ann and I set off to Wal-Mart to get food for the weekend and then to the meat market for steaks for NYE (thank goodness for GPS on the phones!). Friday night we had great fajitas, and of course, lots of wine and beer! We spent the rest of Friday night watching the OU Sooners defeat the Iowa Hawkeyes (sorry Aunt Judy and Uncle Scott!)
Mike and Alex "fishing" in the pond...sausage bits don't catch many fish!
Saturday morning, we woke up with the intentions of going to Bluebonnet Cafe, a favorite of everyone in the house. Being my first time in Marble Falls, I was excited to try this place because Ann and Lea raved so much about it, Lea swears their peanut butter pie is amazing! Ann and Mike left earlier with the kids so they could get a table, but later called us to say they were closed! All 6 adults were disappointed! We did find a breakfast place that met everyone's needs.
On the way to breakfast, Ann and Lea spotted an "open house" so we decided to stop in and be nosy! The house was REDUCED to just under $2 million, NBD. I will admit, it was a beautiful house, right on the water with LOTS of space and more importantly, lots of bathrooms! Two of the bathrooms even had bidets!
After touring, we headed back to the house to watch A&M beat Northwestern in another close game! While Will was absorbed in the game, the two babies, and 4 of the adults took naps...I might have been one of the adults...
Elvis is stoked that A&M won!
After the winery tour, Will and I rushed back to the house to make kickoff of the AUBURN game! We ate a wonderful steak and baked potato dinner (thanks, Mike and Ann) while watching Auburn beat UVA! We were 3 for 3 that weekend...everyone was happy! We all stayed up and watched the countdown and welcomed in 2012 with great friends!
Will is ready for midnight
Brian parties like no other!
Brian and Lea
Our wonderful hosts!
Happy New Year!
Elvis doesn't really like having his pictures taken
Bring it on 2012!
Resolutions
Yep, it's a new year and time for resolutions again! While I make resolutions every year, like many people they rarely stick for more than a few weeks. Not this year though, this year I have a plan! I have a...
Resolution Calendar!
That's right, a calendar soley created to track my resolutions! I even created a...
Resolution Spreadsheet!
I listed my resolutions out and made checkpoints for each month for me to track whether I completed my goal for that month. I am such a calendar/checkpoint person anyway, I can't believe that I didn't think of this sooner!
None of my resolutions are really anything worth writing home about (but apparently they are worth blogging about, go figure), but I'm content with them. In no particular order they are:
- Make better daily choices (choosing to see the good)
- Workout at least 3x/week for at least 30 minutes per session (hopefully it will be more, but I thought I would start small)
- Save more money (targeted goal each month)
- Try new recipes at home (3 new ones per month)
- Do the things I put off from last year: use my camera more, learn photoshop, learn to sew and actually use my sewing machine
- Read at least 50 books this year (I'm hoping that since I no longer have to worry about my masters classes, I can focus more on reading things I enjoy
- "Unplug" more. While I would like to say go "electronic free" more, I realized that would mean no music, so I'm just going to go computer/tv/phone free more. I'm not sure how I'm going to track that, but it's a goal.
Happy New Year!
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